3 Reasons for My Unintended Blog Break

Hey my goal-obsessed lovelies,

I sincerely apologize for the unexpected blog break since March. Life has been a whirlwind of both highs and lows, and I found myself needing to step back and focus on navigating through it all. The time away has been invaluable, allowing me to reflect, learn, and grow in ways I never anticipated. Although some moments were challenging, others brought immense rewards, and I’m truly grateful for every experience that has shaped me during this period.

During this period of reflection, I realized the importance of embracing life’s unpredictability. Sometimes, we need to pause and reassess our path, and that’s exactly what I did. The break wasn’t planned, but it became a necessary part of my journey. I’ve gained a deeper understanding of myself and what truly matters to me, both personally and professionally.

3 Major Reasons for the Blog Break

Tighter Work Schedule

I’m thrilled to share that in February, I received a promotion at work, which has been both exciting and demanding. I was appointed as the Acting Head of an entire Unit—a role that has brought a significant increase in responsibility and workload. Managing a team and overseeing various projects often requires me to work overtime, meaning my days have become longer, and my evenings shorter. The challenge of stepping into this leadership role has been exhilarating, and I’m proud of the progress I’ve made so far.

However, after about a month in this new position, I noticed the impact it was having on my overall well-being. The pressure to excel, combined with the extended hours, began to take a toll on me physically and mentally. Recognizing the importance of maintaining a healthy work-life balance, I made the difficult decision to temporarily step back from other commitments, including some personal projects and activities that I deeply enjoy. This decision wasn’t easy, but I knew that prioritizing my health and ensuring I could continue to perform effectively at work was crucial.

Despite the challenges, this experience has been a tremendous opportunity for growth. I’ve learned a lot about leadership, time management, and the importance of self-care. Moving forward, I’m committed to finding a better balance between my professional responsibilities and personal life. I’m eager to continue on this journey, embracing the lessons learned and striving for even greater achievements in the months ahead.

Continuation of Education

I am also thrilled to share that I gained admission into one of the local universities in my country to pursue a Master of Science in Public Policy Management. Given my regular 9-5 job, I opted for distance education. Classes are held on weekends, which means I have hardly any free time for myself. Juggling both school and work wasn’t something I had planned for this year, but I am glad I took the plunge.

The program lasts just 18 months, so I will be done by Summer 2025. Returning to school after finishing my Bachelor’s degree ten years ago has been more exciting than I anticipated. Since the College of Distance Education is designed for regular workers, the lecturers are considerate of our schedules. Lectures are mostly online with fewer in-person quizzes. Instead, we focus on assignments and group presentations, which offer flexibility and make balancing my commitments more manageable.

Though it’s been a hectic period, I’m grateful for these opportunities to grow both professionally and academically. Your support and understanding mean a lot as I navigate this busy yet rewarding phase of my life. Thank you for sticking with me!

Death of My Father

In late May, my family was shaken when my dad suffered a stroke. The suddenness of it all took a significant toll on me, both professionally and financially. Navigating through the emotional and logistical challenges was incredibly difficult, and it made an already demanding period in my life even more overwhelming.

On June 14th, 2024, just a few weeks later, my father passed away. His death hit me hard, especially since I had my final exam scheduled the very next day. As the firstborn, it was my responsibility, along with my siblings, to handle most of the funeral arrangements, as is the tradition in our culture. I wanted to honor my father without incurring unnecessary expenses, so we opted for a simple, intimate funeral. We invited only close family and friends to the service, which took place on June 20th. It was a difficult yet meaningful time, where we celebrated my father’s life in a way that felt true to who he was.

Conclusion

Now, as I begin to find my footing again, I’m excited to reconnect with all of you. I’ve returned with a renewed sense of purpose and a wealth of experiences that I’m eager to share through new articles. Thank you for your unwavering support since I launched www.goalsobsessed.com a year ago. Your encouragement has meant the world to me, and I’m looking forward to continuing this journey together.

Your unwavering support during my absence has meant more to me than words can express. Knowing that this community is here, waiting and encouraging me, has been a constant source of motivation. I’ve missed our interactions, the shared stories, and the collective journey we’ve been on. Now that I’m back, I’m eager to dive into new topics, share fresh perspectives, and continue building the meaningful connections that make this blog so special.

As we move forward together, I’m more committed than ever to embracing both the challenges and triumphs that lie ahead. Life is full of unexpected twists, but with each one comes an opportunity for growth and transformation. Thank you for your patience, understanding, and for sticking with me through this pause. I’m excited to see what the future holds for us and can’t wait to continue this journey with all of you.

Through it all, I’ve learned that there’s never a perfect time to pursue the things you love. Life will always have its ups and downs, but waiting for the “right” moment can mean missing out on what truly brings you joy. So, don’t wait—embrace what you love now, even amidst the chaos.

Now, I’m back with renewed energy and a fresh perspective, eager to share more insights and experiences with you all. Thank you for your patience and understanding during my absence. I’m excited to continue this journey together, and I look forward to connecting with you through my upcoming posts.